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02/01/2020 06:35 am PST
Posted 11 months ago

Engage in a Reader Retreat

By C.S. Kjar

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“No matter how many house chores you complete, there are always more to do.”  –African proverb

“No matter how many books you read, there are always more to read.”  –Carol’s proverb

Adult life is rife with obstacles for a bookworm. Work life, parenthood, and housework sap all our time until we have only scraps of leftover minutes to chase our passion of reading. Even then, we must ignore the guilt of chores left undone and ignore the existence of dust bunnies under the refrigerator.

It’s time for readers to stand up and demand time to indulge their fantasies and dreams. Go on a reader retreat! Writers have writing retreats. Quilters have quilting retreats. Families have vacation retreats. Why not one for readers? We need quiet time meant solely for reading without interruptions or guilt. We need time to meet our reading needs.

This idea originated with my in-laws. For more than forty years, they spent a week or two in the same camp spot at the same campground by a lake. My father-in-law fished all day. My mother-in-law had her comfortable outdoor chair, a small table on one side with her can of diet Coke, and on the other side, a box full of paperback books she’d picked up at garage sales for a dime or a quarter. She’d read all day long.  No one was allowed to bother her reading time. Biology breaks and taking time to slap together meat and bread were her only disruptions. A bookworm’s dream.

I joined her one summer and read nine books on my Kindle while we enjoyed the summer breezes off the lake. Even the chirping birds, squirrels, and chipmunks scrounging for dropped crumbs, and the occasional car driving by didn’t deter us from our concentration while reading.

My daughter and I continued the family tradition during a mother-daughter trip to Cancun. We paid a little more for an all-inclusive resort, but it was totally worth it. Our reading retreat was three days on the beach reading. Our only interruptions were times we couldn’t resist going into the warm ocean water, people coming by to ask if we wanted something to drink, and trips to get snacks. It was heaven!

reader retreat at the beach

Reading retreats don’t have to be fancy or overly organized. You don’t have to go to Cancun or the forest, but it’s nice if you can.  It can be monthly mornings at a favorite coffee shop or a house rule stating no one bothers Mom or Dad for thirty minutes after supper. It can be a rotation at friends’ houses, or a gathering at a city park. Not much is needed to read, other than a comfortable chair, a handy drink, and quiet.

You can have private retreat or one with a group of reading friends. The group doesn’t have to read the same book. Trading and sharing are encouraged. Discussing what you’re reading over lunch, supper, or breakfast is interesting and provides ideas on what to read next.

The idea of a reading retreat is to have time to engage your mind in what it craves: an escape from life’s drudgery to other worlds, times, and people. Consider it as necessary, a form of therapy.

Most of all, show your children and grandchildren reading is a gift we can all have and enjoy. The wisdom of the ages is found in books in our local libraries, ready to be absorbed by readers of all ages. As Dr. Seuss said, “The more that you read, the more things you will know. The more that you learn, the more places you’ll go.”


C.S. Kjar

First, let me answer the question about how you say my last name. It’s pronounced CARE. I love that name. It’s what we all should do. Care. I’m a self-published author from the Pacific Northwest where I live with my Hubby of over 40 years. I’ve loved to write my whole life, but it wasn’t until I retired that I could focus that energy into writing fiction and non-fiction books. My books are wholesome stories about small-town people searching for something they lost. The search brings decisions they may not wish to make, but good always overcomes evil. It’s become one of the joys of my life. Each week, I post a new blog on my website about the things I see, do, and remember. Visit my website at https://cskjar.com.


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  1. Aditya Khatavkar
    Aditya Khatavkar • 7 months ago

    Great idea about the Book retreat !!

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  2. Betty
    Betty • 11 months ago

    I love this idea! I am a quilter and I usually go on 4 quilt retreats a year. I am an avid reader. I would love to go on a book retreat.

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  3. Maureen
    Maureen • 11 months ago

    Thank you for this I never thought of or imagined a reading retreat, but it sounds like a book lovers heaven. And to think, I can invite a few friends, read, discuss, enjoy their company, and go back to reading again. I appreciate your insight more than words can say. Thanks again.

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  4. Tammie Lou
    Tammie Lou • 11 months ago

    Every weekend in the summer, my husband and I go camping. He leaves me be to read all day into the night. I sit by the campfire and just read. I only take breaks to eat a meal, nature calls, and get a snack. The rest of the time I am reading away. When night time comes and we sit around the fire, we watch the stars till way into the night. Once we go into our tent, I grab my kindle (yes, I use it only at night) and read some more. He is amazing and keeps the doggie entertained and himself. Love sitting and reading away!

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    • C.S. Kjar
      C.S. Kjar Tammie Lou • 11 months ago

      Perfect! You already enjoy a reading retreat. You're very lucky.

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  5. Lisa Porterburt
    Lisa Porterburt • 11 months ago

    A readers retreat sounds great. Now if I could put my book down to plan one.....

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    • Rachel Branton
      Rachel Branton Lisa Porterburt • 11 months ago

      Hahaha, so true!

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  6. Andy
    Andy • 11 months ago

    I agree wholeheartedly. I’ve raised children, grandchildren and I’m now Old. Being a prewar baby, I had no toys but fortunately a local library and pencil and paper served me well. Old age is my retreat and books and painting are my education and therapy. My family follow by example. I’ve read about 3 books a week since I was 5 ...I don’t get much sleep !!!

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    • C.S. Kjar
      C.S. Kjar Andy • 11 months ago

      My grandfather was that way. He read all the time. I treasure my books from his library.

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  7. FreyaJo
    FreyaJo • 11 months ago

    Going to your website. Thank you for writing.

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    • C.S. Kjar
      C.S. Kjar FreyaJo • 11 months ago

      Thanks so much!

      Reply
  8. Nancy
    Nancy • 11 months ago

    Last year I went on a "readers retreat", it was a hurricane evacuation to my mother-in-law's house. We took the important papers, 2 cats, 5 Kindles. I read 11 books in a week! It was great!

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    • C.S. Kjar
      C.S. Kjar Nancy • 11 months ago

      I hope you can do it again, only without the evacuation notices.

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